pamusky - you're still just a young-buck compared to me, I got five years on ya and I feel the opposite, my best hunting years are right in front of me. I've been at my job now for 25 years so I've earned five weeks vacation. My kids are nearly grown so the school sports and activities are winding down. I've got more time, resources, and most of all experience on my side.
To paraphrase Tim McGraw, "Lord have mercy on my next 30 deers....."
I keep a "lessons learned" section in my journal, on each day's hunt I have a what-went-wrong section and what-should-I-learn. One of my key lessons from a couple years ago was to define my shooting standards prior to the season, and live with that decision.
It works both ways. Sometimes depending on what you see or what your camera is telling you, in any given year your options might be limited. This year I put a certain buck on my "hit list" not because of his antler size, but because of circumstance, location, and a little history with this buck. I said before hand under certain specific circumstances I would try to take this deer, and lo and behold, I did exactly that. Couldn't believe it as it unfolded, almost like I rehearsed in my mind.
I'll spare the details but I fooled him with my best mock scrape ever, and I watched him fall. Not quite as big as some of my others, but every bit as special, because I feel that in a little way, part of it was on "my" terms as the hunter, if that's the right way to say it.
Shoot/Don't Shoot doesn't always have to be about big, bigger, and biggest. You can fall into the trap of hunting ghosts that will never show in daylight. The lesson I took away this year was about persistence, effort, patience, and knowledge, I used all of it to set a realistic standard for ME (not anyone else), and I look back on the season and smile.