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comblockshooter 04-02-2015 03:59 AM

am i to nice
 
or is it what dad does for his kids and everyone else.
got news tonight that our daughter sold her trailer and is going to be staying here, that's her, husband and 2 kids. we have the spare room so they have a spot. I drive a semi all night and get home frustrated and so does her husband, for the same company. am I really this nuts?

atr 04-02-2015 06:09 AM

Re: am i to nice
 
Being a Dad is for Life, Letting them stay there is the right thing to do.

Danesdad 04-02-2015 01:05 PM

Re: am i to nice
 
My biggest issue would be if everyone was quiet enough for you to get some sleep during the day.

Make sure they know it's only temporary.

Bates 04-02-2015 03:10 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Danesdad
My biggest issue would be if everyone was quiet enough for you to get some sleep during the day.

Make sure they know it's only temporary.

X2 https://www.huntingpa.com/forums/imag...ies/thumbs.gif Spot on.

Deer archer 04-02-2015 03:26 PM

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Open discussion is important. "We do not mind helping but... Here are our thoughts on how this could work."
To answer your question. No you are not too nice. You are a great dad...

atr 04-02-2015 04:44 PM

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I laid the law down when my Daughter wanted to move in, I said ok but , Don't drink my Beer, Don't drink my wine, and the first time I catch you Smoking my Stash You Out.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6...ps39e08ae6.jpg

Big Redneck 04-02-2015 05:13 PM

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I have told all my Kids that there will always be room for them in my house BUT my house my rules.

Set the rules and if they don't like them they can find a house where they like the rules.

I have helped them all out at one time or another and sometimes it was tough but I will always be there for them.

As for the Grandkids, well blood of my blood trumps everything and they get away with things I would never let their parents do https://www.huntingpa.com/forums/images/smilies/grin.gif

yellodog 04-02-2015 09:43 PM

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it's just normal family bussiness.

as long as any friend or family member needs help, i'm in. when or if it becomes a situation where someones looking for a free ride, i'm out.

timberdoodle 04-02-2015 10:10 PM

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clermont 04-02-2015 10:15 PM

Re: am i to nice
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by comblockshooter
or is it what dad does for his kids and everyone else.
got news tonight that our daughter sold her trailer and is going to be staying here, that's her, husband and 2 kids. we have the spare room so they have a spot. I drive a semi all night and get home frustrated and so does her husband, for the same company. am I really this nuts?

Were you asked or told? Courtesy goes a long way, even with family.


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