I guess it's all relative
Buddy just went through his third divorce. So he joins a few on line dating sites. Finds a few dates and goes out a few times, and gets to thinking he is near recovery from the last divorce. A cute blond comes up as a possible match selected by the computer. She lives 50 miles away. He makes arrangements to meet her for dinner to see how they get along. He even texts his buddies about what a cutie this is and how they get along so well. They discuss all kinds of things, sports, hunting, their respective children, etc. Well long about dessert, they get to discussing their family back rounds. Turns out the blond is the daughter of a long lost older half sister that he had not seen since he was six years old, i.e. his niece. Talk about Fate playing dirty tricks.