Have her take some shooting courses; it will give her a chance to try various weapons. Get one that fits her hand and in a light cartridge, that she can enjoy shooting to build skills. It is ain't fun she will never learn to shoot good.
I have 3 snub nose 38 revolvers, they are the toughest pistol to shoot, so I'd not start there.
32 auto is good but costs a fortune to shoot. might want to get a 22 auto for some shooting this christmas and then after she builds some skill get something more CCW oriented (for her birthday). sig P232 in 380 is about the best.